[Blog post by Ari Dellovo, circulation hero]

The adoption narratives most often depicted in works of fiction seem to be at opposite ends of the spectrum: it’s either the tragedy and misfortune portrayed in Oliver Twist or the compassion and warmth found in Anne of Green Gables. But adoption is so much more than a trope. It’s a complex reality that touches the lives of hundreds of thousands of people throughout the world. Birth parents, adoptive families, and adoptees all make up what is sometimes referred to as the adoption constellation. 

November was first named National Adoption Month by President Bill Clinton in 1995. Since then, many child welfare agencies have used the month to raise awareness around adoption, specifically highlighting the need for adoptive families for teens experiencing the U.S. foster care system. More recently, adult adoptees have come together to “flip the script” on the traditional adoption narrative. By amplifying their own voices and lived truths—not all of them joyful or positive—we are presented with another perspective from the adoption constellation.

Here at the Beebe we have a thoughtful and comprehensive display featuring powerful memoirs and poignant works of fiction that portray the many nuances and complexities of adoption. As an adoptive mom myself, I emphatically recommend Angela Tucker’s You Should Be Grateful and Adoption is Both by Elena S. Hall. And for authentic adoptee representation in fiction, check out Probably Ruby by Lisa Bird-Wilson. As an adoptee to a non-Indigenous family, Bird-Wilson brings truth and reverence to a powerful story illustrating the impact of the foster system on Indigenous children. 

For more recommendations take a look at our National Adoption Month book list.